No more good girl: masturbation as empowerment

No more good girl: masturbation as empowerment

We’re back! Rachel and I had a rare reunion in Portland and we couldn’t wait to sink our teeth into juicy conversation. We often wonder why we’re not recording 24/7 Truman Show style. So much abounds from conversation with each other and we always have a blast together. We are perfect mirrors of each other and reflect to one another what the other needs to hear and learn. (more…)

What living and leading from pleasure looks like

What living and leading from pleasure looks like

Every week for almost a year I’ve sat down and birthed an article. I never really plan what I’m going to write and have faith that inspiration will manifest a topic for me. That has been true up until the past few weeks. I’ve been stretching. It’s not that I’m not inspired. I’m inspired daily by something or other. It’s that I haven’t been inspired to write. And I love writing. Usually.

I’ve been preaching to anyone who is willing to listen (and those who aren’t – I’m from New York City, I don’t always ask permission) how amazing it is to live and lead from Radical Pleasure™. I’ve been preaching that the days of doing from duty, obligation, and martyrdom are over. There’s a new sheriff in town. There’s a new town. In this town, you are tapped into your desires, wishes, needs, and wants. Here, you ask yourself “what makes me feel good?”, not “what can I do to make this pain go away?” In this town, you give to yourself first so you can give to others from fullness. Here, you are courageous and vulnerable and are accepted for exactly you. I love this town! (more…)