Making my friends feel unsafe is profoundly hurtful to me and to them
- When friends tell you something about your behavior, LISTEN. Don’t speak. LISTEN. It was profoundly hard for them to tell you so honor them by listening.
- THANK THEM. Because it was profoundly hard for them to tell you that you’re being shitty, thank them!
Are friends always right and coming from an intention of love? No. That’s your work to decide. After hearing feedback, you go and sit on your meditation cushion and you listen to your inner voice of intuition. That will tell you based on how you FEEL whether their intentions are pure and whether you need to clean up your act. Do you really want to be projecting resentment out into the universe? That’s definitely not going to call in your soulmate or money or anything you desire.
When you have friends who love you enough to tell you the truth, be thankful every day for them and let them model for you how to come out of pleasing so you can speak your truth to them when they need it. That’s the only way to genuine friendship.
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With pleasure loves